I have begun to hear a term "generational wealth." Some thoughts. Part of me does not believe in it. I think it is each generation's, each person's, responsibility to build his/her own "wealth." By wealth I mean savings and ability to take care of one's family, and to be ready through investments for the later part of one's life when working is no longer an option. It is not my parents' job to pass something on to me, nor mine to my child or grandchildren. In other one, each person fends for themselves. The alternative, to me, seems to be a sense of expectation that the previous generation owes us something, even to the point of wishing someone would die so we are rewarded with money or property we did not earn. My parents left me no money at all. I had to put out some money when my mother passed. I do not harbor any ill will about that. She was my mom. I didn't expect anything from my mother-in-law, who willed her house to my son. It is c...
How often is our prayer in arrogance rather than humility? "I am praying for what I know is best for other people"? "God, give me this thing I want and make it your will for me"? I write this today for two reasons. My husband is going to his doctor this morning, something he has anxiety about (long story), and I started to pray a very bold and presumptuous and me-centered prayer about it. The prayer should be for his primary care physician and for his ability to explain his needs and for God's grace. And my repentance. I bring this up because, well, it just happened and because I am concerned about my husband's health and ability to navigate the health care system (another matter entirely) and because we are moving into the second part of Ephesians 1 soon, a very intensely theological prayer Paul offers for the people of this southeastern Turkey church community. I will probably spend the biggest part of the rest of Lent on that. But not yet. First, we h...