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Memoir, Chapter 1, Work in Progress

  “Barbara, I found it!” My brother Donald called out to me from across the lush, overgrown grass and mostly obscured grave markers of Fort Lincoln Cemetery. For the past twenty minutes he and I had been on a hunt in this long-established resting place in Colmar Manor, Maryland, right outside the District of Columbia. Rush hour traffic sped by on the other side of the iron fence, mostly moving east into Maryland’s Prince George’s County suburbs or on to Anne Arundel or Calvert Counties. I looked up from the marker where I stood, about 100 feet from my brother. I had been scraping cuttings of dried grass from its face, mostly with the tip of my New Balance shoe, trying to decipher the name. So far I had cleaned off dozens of markers, all of which were level with the ground. I had used my foot and sometimes by hands, quietly disappointed by each. A few swipes across each marker showed either letters that did not fit the name of my query or dates of birth and death that did...

What Happened to Me?

 I have neglected this blog for three weeks or so. My life took on a busy turn and more than usual amounts of time have been devoted to selling books, researching books, publishing books, reading books, and to change parallelism, working on my podcast, Dialogues with Creators , which has reached its 100th episode and is coming up on 80 guests. Also retirement parties, writers groups, family time, and gardening.  I submitted the first chapter of my memoir to my writers group and to the Rabbit Room mini-class I was taking for three weeks. I will post it this morning (May 16), and I got feedback on edits, valid ones. Writing a memoir is painful and makes me ask, Why do we have this need to publish our explanation of ourselves? I will be interviewing a person on my podcast whose memoir I just read (book provided; I would not have bought it) and I am ambivalent about it. It is well written, but some of it seems,. . . .well, fictionalized. And sensationalized. So I will focus on the...